A coercive trauma specialist breaks down 9 narcissistic abuse tactics — gaslighting, love bombing, DARVO, and more — with real-life examples.
Tactics and Manipulation
Narcissistic abuse operates through a recognizable toolkit of psychological tactics — gaslighting, DARVO, love bombing, hoovering, triangulation, and the strategic use of intermittent reinforcement — each designed to destabilize the targeted person’s sense of reality and maintain control. This section examines those tactics in depth: how they work, why they are effective, and what they feel like from the inside. Understanding the mechanics of manipulation is the first step toward dismantling its hold. For the broader framework, see the Definitive Guide to Coercive Control.
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