Melvil Poupaud’s portrayal of a coercive control perpetrator is a tour de force in Just The Two of Us (L’Amour et les Forêts).
Nice Guy
“Nice Guy” is a term that refers to a specific behavioral pattern characterized by men who present themselves as kind, courteous, and respectful in their interactions with women, often with the expectation of receiving romantic or sexual attention in return. However, this behavior is typically motivated by self-interest and a sense of entitlement rather than genuine care and respect. The “nice guy” syndrome is rooted in the belief that being nice, and fulfilling societal expectations of being respectful and considerate, should automatically earn them the affection and attention of women. When their efforts are not reciprocated, “nice guys” may become resentful, entitled, and even exhibit manipulative or controlling behaviors. This behavior reflects a flawed understanding of consent, objectification of women, and a failure to recognize the autonomy and agency of others. It is important to note that not all men who demonstrate kind and respectful behavior fall into this category, as genuine kindness and respect should come from a place of empathy and equality rather than as a means to an end.