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Love-Bombing
Love-bombing is a deliberate manipulation technique used by narcissistic and character-disturbed individuals to rapidly establish psychological control over a target through an overwhelming display of attention, affection, and manufactured devotion.
The term originated in the context of cult recruitment and was first empirically studied in romantic relationships by Strutzenberg, Wiersma-Mosley, Jozkowski, and Becnel (2017), who identified it as the presence of excessive communication at the beginning of a relationship in order to obtain power and control as a means of narcissistic self-enhancement.
Love-bombing is the idealization phase of the narcissistic abuse cycle — the entry point into a pattern of coercive control that transitions, once the target’s emotional investment is secured, into devaluation and discard. Narcissistic Abuse Rehab founder Manya Wakefield has written and researched extensively on love-bombing, drawing on original expert interviews with credentialed relationship professionals and peer-reviewed research to produce comprehensive resources on the subject.
Further reading:
- The Urgent Need for Femicide Legislation
- The Global Coercive Control Legislation Index
- The Global Femicide Legislation Index
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