What is Trauma?

What Is Trauma?

Narcissistic Abuse By Feb 06, 2024

Trauma refers to experiences that overwhelm a person’s ability to cope, leading to significant distress and impairment in their mental, emotional, social, or spiritual well-being. These experiences can be a single event or an ongoing pattern.

Some common causes are:

  • Collective violence (scapegoating)
  • Intimate partner violence (domestic violence)
  • Financial abuse
  • Natural disasters
  • Neglect
  • Medical trauma
  • Psycho-emotional abuse
  • Sexual assault
  • Traumatic grief

Trauma Symptoms

1Traumatic experiences can activate the sympathetic nervous system, triggering the body’s fight-flight-freeze or fawn response to perceived threats.2 This activation releases stress hormones and temporarily alters cognitive and emotional functioning. While these reactions are adaptive for survival, persistent activation due to severe or ongoing trauma can lead to a range of enduring psychological and physical symptoms.

Psycho-Emotional Symptoms

Some of the psycho-emotional reactions commonly seen are:

  • Anger
  • Anxiety
  • Confusion
  • Denial
  • Depression
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Dissociation
  • Fear
  • Flashbacks
  • Guilt
  • Hyper-vigilance
  • Irritability
  • Mood swings
  • Panic
  • Self-blame
  • Shame
  • Shock
  • Shame
  • Social isolation

Physical Symptoms

Some of the physical reactions commonly include:

  • Aches
  • Exhaustion
  • Fatigue
  • Health palpitations
  • Hyperarousal
  • Insomnia
  • Nightmares
  • Muscle tension
  • Chronic pain

What Does Trauma-Informed Recovery Coaching Look Like?

Trauma-informed recovery coaching provides compassionate and holistic support for people as they strive towards healing and post-traumatic growth. Clients are empowered to set goals and work in collaboration with their coach to develop greater self-awareness and resilience while processing the underlying cause(s). It is a collaborative effort between the client and coach, who arms the client with tools to cope with triggers and regulate emotions while building self-confidence and trust. Visit our coaching page to book a session.

References

  1. van der Kolk, B. A. (2014). The body keeps the score: Brain, mind, and body in the healing of trauma. New York: Viking. ↩︎
  2. Chu B, Marwaha K, Sanvictores T, et al. Physiology, Stress Reaction. [Updated 2022]. In: StatPearls [Internet]. Treasure Island (FL): StatPearls Publishing; 2024 January. ↩︎
Author

Manya Wakefield is a narcissistic abuse recovery coach, coercive trauma specialist, and the developer of the Coercive Trauma Recovery Method™ and TENEL™ (Traumatic Exposure to Narcissism in Early Life) — proprietary recovery frameworks built from seven years of direct professional work with survivors of coercive control, narcissistic abuse, and Adult Children of Narcissists. Both frameworks have been reviewed by Dr. Michael Kinsey, PhD, clinical psychologist, New School for Social Research. She is the founder of Narcissistic Abuse Rehab, a global social impact platform launched in 2019 to support survivors through evidence-based recovery frameworks. Manya is the author of Are You In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship (2019), a resource used in domestic violence recovery groups worldwide. Her original research contributions include the Global Coercive Control Legislation Index (2020) — the first systematic index of its kind on the web — and the Global Femicide Legislation Index (2026), comprehensive legal references used by advocates, legal professionals, and policymakers internationally, cited in peer-reviewed publications including the Southern Illinois University Law Journal, Palgrave Macmillan, and the University of Agder. Her expertise has been featured in Newsweek, Elle, Cosmopolitan, HuffPost, Parade, and YourTango. She hosts the Narcissistic Abuse Rehab Podcast, available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and Amazon Music. All content on this site reflects Manya's direct professional experience working with survivors of narcissistic abuse and coercive control, her published research, and her ongoing advocacy work.